What NOT To Do
If You're Trying to Get an Ex Back
by Marius Panzarella
Author of Reverse My
Breakup
1) Do NOT fight with your ex. Fighting ALWAYS creates tension and
kills attraction. Fighting with an ex is useless. Even if you win the
argument, you will still lose the war.
2) Do NOT try to use logic to "convince" your ex to stay or come back to
you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No matter how brilliant your
logic is, he's still going to leave you.
3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" or that things will
be "different from now on". It's like trying to bail water out of a
sinking boat. It won't work. The hole will still be there.
4) Do NOT keep telling your ex that you love him. He doesn't care. All
he cares about is how much HE loves YOU...not the other way around!
5) Do NOT beg your ex to come back. The more you beg, the more you will
push him or her away.
6) Do NOT try to make your ex feel guilty about leaving you. (Examples:
"I can't live without you." and "Don't break up with me during my exam
period...") It won't work. It will only make them DREAD being with you
even more.
7) Do not act depressed to make him or her feel bad for you. Sympathy
does NOT equal ATTRACTION!
8) Do NOT talk to their friends to win their support. All they care
about is how THEY feel about you. Even if his friends love you, they
can't make him love you forever. External pressure never lasts for long.
If your ex decides to stay with you, their motivation has to come from
WITHIN.
9) Do NOT cry in front of your ex. While he may hug you, he will be proud
that he has so much power over you...and move on to another woman.
10) Do NOT push your ex into getting back with you. The more you push,
the more he or she will PULL AWAY.
These are the most common mistakes people make during a breakup. Trust
me, you don't want to do ANY of these things. If you do, I can guarantee
you your relationship will be doomed. You probably won't even get a
chance to kiss him or her goodbye, let alone get him back. I deal with
dozens of breakup cases every week, so I KNOW what I am talking about!
The good news is that most breakup cases are "reversible." I've
completed a resource called "Reverse a Breakup" that will give you a
step-by-step formula for reversing your breakup and winning your love
back. So if you have an "ex" you would like to win back, you should
definitely download this guide now at:
www.reversemybreakup.com
- by Marius Panzarella
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